Kabbazah and the Art of Pompoir

Historically in the Middle East (before the Muslim extremist took over) sexual knowledge was valued as an important part of a person’s cultural education. They understood how important the joyful union of the sexes is for male female relationships and marriage. Over thousands of years sexual knowledge was refined and passed down to each succeeding generation. Some of this knowledge was eventually recorded in works such as the Karma Sutra, the Ananga Ranga, and the Tao Te Ching.

The word Kabbazah translates to “one who holds”. A Kabbazah is a woman trained in the art of pompoir, the mastery of control of her pubococcygeus muscle (PC) and other pelvic floor muscles giving her the ability to clutch or grip a penis with her vagina and rhythmically squeeze it as if milking it. The Ananga Ranga compares it to the motion of a hand milking a cow.

The Kabbazah use pompoir skills (velvet grip technique) to provide an extended sexual experience and orgasm for a man. This practice is considered sacred in certain temples in India and has been praticed for thousands of years. In modern times Kabbazah (women trained in the art of pompoir or the velvet grip technique) have become a specialty in many Asian brothels. Professional courtesans trained in the erotic arts pride themselves on their pompoir and Kabbazah skills.

The practice first became known in the West through Sir Richard Burton’s translation of The Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana where an account is given describing how a wife pleases her husband and herself using vaginal constrictions. Sir Richard Burton lamented the fact that the women of Europe had no awareness of pompoir or training in the art of Kabbazah.

Sir Richard Burton describes Kabbazah in his notes:

“Amongst some races, the constrictor vagina muscles are so well developed...a woman can so exert them as…when sitting upon his thighs (woman on top position), she can induce the orgasm without moving any other part of her person. Such an artist is called by the Arabs “Kabbazah”, literally meaning “a holder”, and it is not surprising that the slave dealers pay large sums for her. All women have more or less the power, but they wholly neglect it; indeed, there are many races in Europe which have never even heard of it.” (Italic words added for clarity)

Widespread Western discovery of the delights of Kabbazah did not happen until American soldiers on R & R leave in World War II and Vietnam experienced Kabbazah with Japanese and Asian courtesans (women trained in the art of sexual pleasure).

Men fortunate enough to have experienced the Kabbazah
(the Velvet Grip Technique) describe it as being better than any oral sex they have every had and like having a warm, soft and wet velvet gloved hand wrapped around their penis, firmly gripping it and stroking them into the most delicious sexual nirvana they have ever experienced.

The Velvet Grip Technique

The Velvet Grip Technique requires a woman have pompoir (vagina contracting) skills. It can’t’ be performed unless she has trained and achieved mastery of her PC and pelvic muscles through regular pelvic exercise and training. This requires more than just doing "Kegels".

In the past pompoir skills were difficult for women to master, but sexologists using modern technologies have made it possible for any woman to quickly develop them using the ezCOME (easy Clinical Orgasm Muscle Exerciser).

A period of at least 3 to 4 weeks of regular ezCOME training is recommended before doing the Velvet Grip Technique.

The best positions for Velvet Grip Technique are women on top and sitting positions.

• To begin have him lay down. He also must agree to relax and be completely receptive in both mind and body. Most men don’t mind being told by a woman to lie back and let her pleasure him. His passivity is crucial.
• Stimulate him until he is erect. Avoid the temptation to over stimulate him and get him highly aroused. Once he is erect insert his penis into your vagina.
• He is not to thrust or move his penis in any fashion. He must remain still.
• Once his penis is inserted and you’re in position, either straddling him or sitting in his lap, you are to try and not move your pelvis. Your only movements should come from contracting your vagina using your pompoir skills.
• You may kiss and caress each other freely. No thrusting or rocking.
• Flex and contract your pelvic muscles in various patterns until you feel his penis throbbing. This is an indication of his intense arousal and should occur after 10 to 15 minutes.
• Get the feel of his throbbing penis and time your squeezing and releasing with his throbbing. As you continue this he will experience a longer and more intense orgasm than normal. Keep “milking” his penis as he climaxes.
• After his orgasm keep flexing and relaxing your pelvic muscles and build up to your own climax. Add additional clitoral stimulation with your fingers or a vibrator as needed and keep flexing until you are satisfied.

Congratulations

You are now a Kabbazah and know how to perform the Velvet Grip Technique. Your man is fortunate to have a woman with this skill and “will value you above all women, nor will he exchange you for the most beautiful queen in the all the world. So lovely and pleasant to man is she who constricts (squeezes her vagina)” quote from The Ananga Ranga some license taken.

You'll be glad to know once you learn these skills they are never forgotten and all you have to do is keep using the ezCOME and your Velvet Grip Technique will get better, stronger and easier.

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